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Another really smart way to instantly overcome any worry you have.

Posted on 24 January 2006 by Lord Brar

I talked about a tactic that I use to overcome my worries in a previous post [ 7 Best tips for someone who is just starting in business ] — for every problem in world there is either a solution or there isn’t. If there is let’s find it otherwise never mind it.

However, that is not the only tactic that I find myself using. The problem is that once you are faced with a problem / worry, your excitement level is so high that you are not able to think if there is actually a solution to the problem or not.

The tactic that I use to instantly calm myself whenever I have any problem is to think of the extreme outcome of the problem, accept it as a reality and then improve from there.

Let me explain this idea with an example. Say, you are writing an exam and all of a sudden you find that it is a really tough paper and you don’t know an answer to most of the questions. Now what?

Well, if it was I, then I’d have told myself that what is the extreme thing that can happen to me i.e. I fail the exam. Is failing in exam gonna kill me? No. What I can do is that I can atleast try an answer the questions somewhat.

What I usually find is that accepting the extreme result and then improving from there cools my anxiety faster than I can imagine. And, having a cool mind means better though quality.

Next time you face a problem, try using this tactic! :)

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This is a viral video from Youtube that is getting a lot of attention.

I will let the author set the scene:

It was back in Oct 2005.

My wedding was about a month to go and I decided to make a memorable event for my future wife. But, I and she were working and due to preparation of wedding, I didn’t have enough budgets for expensive proposal. While I was considering for the event, I remembered what she said in the past. “Wow it would be great if I can get a chance to go in the room with full of yellow post it just like Sang Sang Plus” (Sang Sang Plus is one of the famous talk show (TV program) in Korea and they prepare a room with full of yellow post it - questions from fans to famous celebrity)

I wrote all the happy memories that I had with my wife in 5,940 post it. It took me 4 days & 5 nights to write everything and post it in the bathroom. (I tried main living room first, but, due to surface of wallpaper, I had to change the place) Once we back from honeymoon, we took all the post it off and kept it in the box until now.

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